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Last week, two black men were arrested at a Starbucks in Philadelphia. The media has reported that the men were arrested because they didn’t order food and were denied use of the restroom. It seems, to me, more like the manager called the police because the men didn’t leave when they were asked to leave the store. At least that is the way it reads in the “USA Today” article:
The men were denied use of a restroom because they didn’t order food or drinks. The store manager called police when they refused to leave, explaining they were waiting for a friend. As video rolled, the friend arrived as police led the pair away in handcuffs. They were later released when Starbucks didn’t press charges.
In the video, they are neatly groomed, wearing casual clothes and not causing a ruckus.
Okay, so that last bit is a little elitist. “They are neatly groomed, wearing casual clothes…” That’s kind of like having “perfectly creased pants”. It’s not racist. It’s elitist. But, “not causing a ruckus”. I would say that not leaving an establishment when you are asked is at least borderline ruckusy. Let’s go to the videotape:
A couple of thinks here: (1) Some of the cops at the arrest were black. (2) All of the patrons protesting the arrest were white. (3) A woman’s voice is heard saying “she said the restrooms were for paying customers. (4) Are people required to ask permission to use the restroom at Starbucks? Not that I patronize Starbucks, but, gee whiz, I don’t ask to use the restroom. Not since I graduated high school anyway.
All of this leads to the absurdity of the whole chain shutting down on May 29 for a company wide re-education brainwashing “racial-bias education” training. Paging George Orwell.
Which brings us to “Slate Magazine” and “Being Black in Public”. May I just say here that I have never read any twaddle that is so myopic, racist and bigoted in my life.
This was, apparently, an online discussion:
The events have sparked yet another conversation about what it means to be a black person in a public, predominantly white space, but it’s unclear whether this will lead to any real shift. Below is an edited and condensed conversation between Slate writers Aisha Harris and Jamelle Bouie, NPR’s Gene Demby, and sociology professor Tressie McMillan Cottom about the significance of this happening at Starbucks in particular and about navigating public spaces while black.
Now, I was unaware of this until today, but it seems that there are only two races in America. I must have been hallucinating that I was in a place called “Chinatown”. I have never been black in America. I have been the only white person in a room. Just last week I was at the Golden Corral Buffet in Aberdeen, NC (don’t judge me). It wasn’t until I was leaving that I realized that I was the only white person in the restaurant. I had waved at kids and made small talk at the dessert counter. Must have been my white privilege. I have been followed in a store. I have been asked if I needed help. Must have been my white privilege that made think it wasn’t personal.
But absorb this:
Tressie McMillan Cottom: I have post-traumatic stress disorder at this point with videos of white people doing horrible, routine racism. Like a lot of black people, I suspect, reading the latest on this primed all the emotions of my experiences of being profiled or othered in white spaces. And then you deal with the inevitable shock from white people, which in its way only reinforces how utterly hypervisible yet invisible we are. The constant shock to white sensibilities is part of the black trauma.
Jamelle Bouie: Right. I’m not sure that I had any reaction beyond, “Ah, another example of black people getting arrested for the crime of—checks notes—existing in public space.”
Gosh almight, white people are just awful. Why on Earth would these people want to exist within the same space as white people.
But, there is so much more ugly hatred from these writers:
Demby: I was talking to Phillip Atiba Goff, the co-founder of the Center for Policing Equity and a Philly dude, who said it’s a mistake to partition the public’s racial bias off from the police’s racial bias. The police were called into this situation, as a colleague said, to mediate a misunderstanding, like they were RAs in a dorm and not armed agents of the state with broad discretion to use violence and detain people. And so there’s this way that the reasonableness of white people’s fears about black people is backed up by institutions. Folks call the cops to back them up in disagreements with other members of the public in ostensibly public spaces open to everyone.
Because black folks and the other races that I have hallucinated never ever call the “armed agents of the state” to “mediate a misunderstanding”. No.
The article/discussion just gets more racist and elitist from there. You can read it but unless you are prepared to want a divorce from the United States I wouldn’t advise it.
I have no love for Starbucks. I never cared for the product and I don’t patronize woke companies. Starbucks can get disappeared for all I care. If one is asked to leave an establishment, one should leave.
Do you really have to ask permission to use the restroom in Starbucks?
In many places, bringing outside food or drink into an establishment is illegal. It’s a health code violation and places the establishment’s license in jeopardy. Starbucks had every right to ask these gentlemen to leave. These has blown up completely out of proportion because in today’s USA we have to blame everything but the three individuals (the two gentlemen and the manager) who are the actual problem here. Let’s blame the farmer who grew the beans as well.
Events like these are just aberrations of day to day life – like road rage. It’s a way that people from the Left, like ‘Aisha Harris and Jamelle Bouie, NPR’s Gene Demby, and sociology professor Tressie McMillan Cottom,’ can gain some essence of notoriety e.g., claim that being cut-off in traffic is an excuse for flipping someone the bird. After all, they never do that, and it prompts people to pay attention to them by saying, “I’m right, you are wrong, and you are an asshole if you don’t agree.” As for me, I’m headed to the Krystal to use the bathroom! I’ve been thrown out of better places than Starbucks.
I have post-traumatic stress disorder at this point
No you don’t, you self-centered, sanctimonious, illiterate, ignorant, fragile twit!
in ostensibly public spaces open to everyone
Denby, you ignorant slut! It’s NOT a “public space” open to “everyone”. It’s a private establishment, open to paying customers. It’s defined as a “public accommodation” – a creation of the imagination of the SCOTUS in 1964 – which means it can’t discriminate, but it’s still only open to customers.
Customers is NOT defined as “anyone walking in off the street”, but “people conducting ordinary business with the establishment”. This includes browsing in a retail store, but not “hanging out” in a coffee shop without buying anything.
Do you really have to ask permission to use the restroom in Starbucks?
You should darn well ask permission anywhere, really. It’s called “being polite”. Though, making a beeline for the restroom, then stopping to buy something on the way out is generally acceptable in some places. As Amanda mentions, all they had to do was politely order or buy something. Or wait outside.
(Oh, BTW, some drug stores – can’t recall if it’s Walgreens, CVS or Rite-Aid where I encountered this – actually have cypher-locks on their bathroom doors, and a store employee has to let you in.)
I may be late to the table with this comment, but it’s a public posting so, do you really have to slurs to make a point? If you disagree with her why not trying to just post a reply? I’m not in her position, nor have I experienced the level of bigotry her race has experience either. As it turns out your statement for sure over shadows her statement. You are showing your true colors by the limited terminology. Name-calling, really?!! What are you 12?
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