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Sunday, on the way back from Pennsylvania, Matt and I stopped to spend a few hours at Arlington National Cemetary, or, as they called it, “Our Nation’s Most Sacred Shrine”.
I couldn’t agree more.
We stopped there purely on a whim. We had gone to Pennsylvania for the weekend to visit some friends, and on the way back decided on impulse to see Arlington. I’ve wanted to go for longer than I can remember, and so we stopped. The first thing I realized was how incredibly huge it was. For those who have never been, I’m sure you always think of it as being a large, vast cemetary, but the size of it literally amazes you. We walked around for about two hours, and maybe saw 1/100th of the place. Everywhere you look, you see the tombstones of the brave men and women who served our country. We got there just as the Changing of the Guard was taking place at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, and so we missed seeing that, although of course we saw the tomb itself.
As we walked in, Matt teared up a little almost right away, as did I. It hits you like a bus when you first see it — at least for patriotic people like the two of us. Perhaps I’m being too picky, but I was a little bothered at how many people were running around, laughing, smiling. I just wanted to stop them and remind them that this is a sacred, solemn place. Not to be a killjoy or anything, and it was my first visit, but I just felt that the tombs of the brave deserved respect, not frolicking fun. But who knows? Maybe I need to lighten up.
We stopped and saw JFK’s grave, along with RFK’s. Somehow, I missed Ted Kennedy’s. I just don’t know how I couldn’t find it, but I just couldn’t.
Seeing the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier was an emotional experience, even without seeing the Changing of the Guard. This was the one area I noticed where everyone, even children, were completely solemn and respectful. We also tried to find the gravesite of one of the Marines Matt went to SOI with that is buried there, but were unsuccessful.
All in all, seeing Arlington National Cemetary was an incredible experience. If you’ve never been, I suggest you go as soon as possible. I strongly feel that all Americans should see it — if for no other reason than to remind them of the cost of freedom and how dear it really is. The best among us are buried at Arlington, and rest there now so that we can be free. We need to remember that, and seeing Arlington in person is the best reminder.
If you’d like to see pictures, they’re below the jump.
I went to ANC with my wife on our honeymoon, and your assessment of it being a sacred site is absolutely correct! Just walking in the gates you “feel” a change in the atmosphere. It was simply awe inspiring, and tear inducing!
As for the changing of the guard: ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! It’s like watching a coordinated ballet… ON CRACK! Every step they take is perfectly in step with everyone else, even when they’re not looking at each other. Nothing is missed. No detail is out of place! And watching the YouTube vids, while great, is nothing compared to the real thing!
Thank you, I enjoyed reading this. I haven’t been back there since 1992 when we buried my dad. Next time I go, it will be to bury my mom (on top of him), which will hopefully not be for a while.
Good morning mam! Good to see you visited ANC. I love going there. When I was last in DC for the VFW National convention there was a trip planned. I went. That eavining I took a cab back. One of my soldiers is buried there. I HAD to visit him. I bought a bottle of our favorite whiskey. I sat and talked with him all night. Sipping whiskey and telling him about my life after he gave his. I now he heard me. His death would be the center of many emotional problems for me in the future. After talking to him I felt relieved. I felt forgiven. Was a major turning point in my life.
I have been back 4 times since. I find peace there surrounded by all those men and women who gave thier lives so that I could live mine. I feel pride.
thank you very much for sharing your visit!
You could spend a whole month in that area, but also I found that across the river, the Mall in general is a must-see-before-you-die thing. Having recently been there taking the whole tour,it brings to the surface a feeling of overwhelming gratitude. The WWII memorial, the Reflecting Pool with the Lincoln Memorial in the background is truly one of the greatest things I have ever seen.
Oh and of course the Vietnam Memorial….
Got to visit while in DC my senior year of HS while on a Close-Up foundation trip. Glad I was able to see it. I made sure to see the Challenger memorial as well as it was relatively new then (this was in ’91). I hope to go back some day to spend more time there, and to see the new WWII memorial and such as well.
BTW, you can make the guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier change their usual routine. Found out the hard way when someone from our group (not me) was on a railing there. They’ll break the usual routine and tell the person to get down. Was really odd and kind of broke the otherwise solemn feeling of being there. But we did also get to see the changing of the guard due to lucky timing.
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