I now understand incels and femcels. Those folks who don’t date and remain celibate. In today’s society, that is a self-preservation strategy for sanity. Dating in the mid-twenties of the 21st century is a clusterf*ck in a dumpster fire, rolling down a shit hill. One very attractive young woman gave us a mind-blowing glimpse into the horrors, traps and pitfalls, but she also found redemption, giving us all hope.