Quit blaming the victim. How many times have we heard that mantra over the last few years? We’ve been told not to blame the victims. We’ve been told not to question a woman who accuses a man of sexual assault because she’d never lie about her victimhood. We are told, over and over again, that women are the victims of men. All women and all men. So why am I surprised to read this: “All woman [sic] live on a spectrum of misery because, we can only assume, we are women”?